For generations, John Wayne has been held up as the epitome of what many men want to be: reliable, independent, always cool, calm, and collected. He was also someone who never needed to ask for help – always giving and never in need of receiving. And yet in Jesus, we see the example of vulnerability and leadership in which it is essential to serve and to be open, in humility, to being served. In today’s message, Pastor Evan explores the implications of authentic relationships, and that give and take, and what that could mean for us as individuals and as the church.