When Peter and John came upon the empty tomb that once held Jesus’ dead body, they went away to ponder it all. But when Mary Magdalene encountered the empty tomb, she stayed there and wept. She engaged her pain with her heart. And for that, she got to see Jesus. I think sometimes we choose to engage with things primarily with our minds and thus seek to protect our hearts. This has a place, but there is also a value in being able to come to Jesus with our pain and allow Jesus to address this pain and to redeem it as only he can, simply by speaking our names.